The Lord chose us out of many in this world for a special purpose. The purpose of God can be fulfilled in our lives by being true disciples of Jesus. Who is a true disciple? We learn an important lesson of true discipleship from the teaching of Jesus in Mat. 16:23-24.
1) Set our mind on God’s interest (V23). The interest of a child of God is always set on the things above, not on the things of the earth. The cares of the world should not bother, trouble, or worry us. When we follow Jesus whole heartedly, the thoughts of the earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace.
2) Deny ourselves (V24). Denying ourselves does not mean that we ignore our responsibility towards the family, personal life and society. Denying ourselves means:
a) Deny our will before God’s will
b) Dethrone our ‘self’ (Pride, ego, jealousy etc)
c) Withdraw ourselves from the goals which are temporary and materialistic
d) Deny wasting time for personal interest.
e) Our entertainment and comfort will not be in our top priority list
f) Stop doing things for self glorification and honour
3) Take up our cross (V24). The cross of self denial, the cross of rejection, the cross of humiliation, the cross of denying our rights, the cross of physical and mental pain, will not be burdensome for a disciple.
4) Follow Jesus (V24). A believer who sincerely seeks to implement the above 3 steps are the followers of Jesus. Do we follow Jesus for some material prosperity and physical gain? Let us examine ourselves.